Learning game will Fvck you up

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Realthangpoon

Don Juan

Apr 20, 2021

I think it depends on how you define ‘game’. By internalizing parts of it it just makes contact with women easier over the years and so it doesn’t feel like game anymore. I mean trying to stand your ground/keeping frame, teasing, making jokes etc. are just good qualities to have and not just ‘game’. That’s gotten me more pvssy over the years than trying to be something you’re not, which feels like you’re betraying yourself anyway. And so many people are faking themselves the last years that it’s a breath of fresh air to just blatantly be yourself (and getting results with that).

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.