"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Learning from failure

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Rejection is probably the closest word in the seduction community.

Discovering your true self, requires you to be seen in the worst light possible. Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant. Through knowing your fault, aiming for, and hoping to know your weaknesses, you ca learn to HIDE them, COVER THEM UP, and CONCEAL them from other people.

You will begin to know the subtle intricacies of hiding yourself from the outside world. You can successfully become a social robot.

Failure is a good thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GloriouslyInsane

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"You're free to do anything after you've lost everything" - Tyler Durden
 

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Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant.
That's a very intriguing thought. The worse things are, the more quickly and dramatically you can change them. Never thought of it that way, but you're absolutely right, and that's an encouraging thought. Something along those lines went through my head when my LTR ended. It helped me "bounce back" within a couple of hours. I was picking up chicks by lunchtime :)
 

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Stackthestyles said:
Rejection is probably the closest word in the seduction community.

Discovering your true self, requires you to be seen in the worst light possible. Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant. Through knowing your fault, aiming for, and hoping to know your weaknesses, you ca learn to HIDE them, COVER THEM UP, and CONCEAL them from other people.

You will begin to know the subtle intricacies of hiding yourself from the outside world. You can successfully become a social robot.

Failure is a good thing.
Nice post , you learn when you fail
 
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