"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Learning from failure

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Rejection is probably the closest word in the seduction community.

Discovering your true self, requires you to be seen in the worst light possible. Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant. Through knowing your fault, aiming for, and hoping to know your weaknesses, you ca learn to HIDE them, COVER THEM UP, and CONCEAL them from other people.

You will begin to know the subtle intricacies of hiding yourself from the outside world. You can successfully become a social robot.

Failure is a good thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GloriouslyInsane

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"You're free to do anything after you've lost everything" - Tyler Durden
 

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Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant.
That's a very intriguing thought. The worse things are, the more quickly and dramatically you can change them. Never thought of it that way, but you're absolutely right, and that's an encouraging thought. Something along those lines went through my head when my LTR ended. It helped me "bounce back" within a couple of hours. I was picking up chicks by lunchtime :)
 

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Stackthestyles said:
Rejection is probably the closest word in the seduction community.

Discovering your true self, requires you to be seen in the worst light possible. Failing miserably gives you the opportunity to change your life in an instant. Through knowing your fault, aiming for, and hoping to know your weaknesses, you ca learn to HIDE them, COVER THEM UP, and CONCEAL them from other people.

You will begin to know the subtle intricacies of hiding yourself from the outside world. You can successfully become a social robot.

Failure is a good thing.
Nice post , you learn when you fail
 
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