Okay…I’ll keep this one short.
Everything is game over with this one girl I work with...
There was an attraction there, but she found out I liked her, created a big distance, and as I result, I ended up turning into a needy, calling, wussy.
When I realized how I was acting, I stopped the calls, and when I saw her at work, I remained aloof...but it was too late.
That was 4 months ago, and I went on vacation. I hadn't seen her since.
A couple of weeks ago, we started working with each other again. I was my normal c/f self, lots of laughter from her, everything is cool. When she was talking to me the other day, she was leaning against the wall, playing with her hair, and her pelvis ******d...which I took as receptivity.
I found out from a friend yesterday (co-worker) that she is uncomfortable around me because she knows I am still attracted to her.
I guess that caught me a wee bit offguard as I never sensed that from her physically.
So now, I'm finding myself watching what I say, how I say it, and I feel like a retard around her.
I don't call her, I don't attempt to socialize with her...all the communication is work related. I let her call me. Those are the only things i can think of doing so i can feel better (in control).
Even though I think the attraction was there way back, I think I killed it completely the way I acted. I am leaving my job in November, so I have some time here...I basically want her to look at me as a man...not some stupid kid who has a crush on her.
Any way to salvage this?
Everything is game over with this one girl I work with...
There was an attraction there, but she found out I liked her, created a big distance, and as I result, I ended up turning into a needy, calling, wussy.
When I realized how I was acting, I stopped the calls, and when I saw her at work, I remained aloof...but it was too late.
That was 4 months ago, and I went on vacation. I hadn't seen her since.
A couple of weeks ago, we started working with each other again. I was my normal c/f self, lots of laughter from her, everything is cool. When she was talking to me the other day, she was leaning against the wall, playing with her hair, and her pelvis ******d...which I took as receptivity.
I found out from a friend yesterday (co-worker) that she is uncomfortable around me because she knows I am still attracted to her.
I guess that caught me a wee bit offguard as I never sensed that from her physically.
So now, I'm finding myself watching what I say, how I say it, and I feel like a retard around her.
I don't call her, I don't attempt to socialize with her...all the communication is work related. I let her call me. Those are the only things i can think of doing so i can feel better (in control).
Even though I think the attraction was there way back, I think I killed it completely the way I acted. I am leaving my job in November, so I have some time here...I basically want her to look at me as a man...not some stupid kid who has a crush on her.
Any way to salvage this?