"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Learned a valuable lesson today

OamImrsNemo

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So I have gotten several co-workers numbers to work on.

BAD IDEA

I took this chick out went to go look at the stars, Now this chick looked like a good girl and acted like one at work. First thing she does is whip out a cigarette and start smoking..Okay no big deal I can deal with that. Next thing she does is start spilling her guts, about how she smokes pot everyday and does all these drugs and sells all her family problems and how she is so fvcked up....

****...

So I cant really do anything about it yet she drove....So she takes me to this elementry school to swing (its 2am) I figure I might as well work on her and try to at least make my night a little better by getting some...She refuses as she has to pee and wants me to take her to my house...I am in no fvcking way bringin this b!tch to my fvcken house...so we sit in her car where she professes more of her problems then she goes to tell me one and stops and refuses to tell me as it will make me want to hate her?
(std drug problem? I have no idea)

So I am like well maybe you should tell me before this all escalates..Still no so finally I am like well I am ready to pass out Ill see you later....She begs me to come home with her so we can fvck..I pass......


Next day she wants to hang out and I want to work her in a way that she friend zones me so I set up a time(now this is at work) So I started flirting with another co worker and she over heard she stops whats she is doing comes over tells me how sad I am that I use the same "lines" on her which I did not use lines at all..I was like holy sh!t we went out once were not married calm down..well apparently she still wants to go the next day.. She ditches...okay no big deal was not to worried I am hoping she is over me...

Well today she texts me this am saying she wants to meet behind the school and do something (fck) So I take the opportunity of her ditching me to get leave while I can...

BAD IDEA...

I start saying how my we could of hung out the other day but you ditched me and now I am busy today.. She wigs out starts calling me an ******* saying it was my fault stop being a pvssy ....what did you sit by your phone all day waiting...

I am blown away..

So I do my best to de-escalate the situation cause I work with this crazy bvtch but does not work out she only gets madder and keeps blaming me...



Now I am going to have to work with this psycho c^nt who knows what going to happen next omg...



Morale of the story please for the sake of being happy at work DO NOT date anyone because they could be psycho as fvck and not logical at all so reasoning with them is out the window...


Now I dont know what my next option to do is...fvck
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zarky

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So I have gotten several co-workers numbers to work on.

BAD IDEA
Wow, um, you say that like it's a novel concept. About 20% of the threads here advise not to 'date' co-workers. No offense but... did you not read those?
 

OamImrsNemo

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Honestly I read a lot on here I have not seen any threads dealing with this maybe I just missed them or something...I did ask several times in my FR and never got any replies so I thought fvck it I will just do it...But now I am learning my lesson..My bad if this is a recurring topic never really seen it.
 
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