"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Learn to dance! A message to you freaking lazy social retards

ethnomethodologist

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Learn To Dance
by Anon


News Flash!

Women like men who can dance. If that's not news to you now, take heed.

Dancing transcends all social strata. It requires no economic success, clever conversation, nor cool artifacts; it only requires learning how. Anyone can do it, and women love it. Women feel that it truly is the best thing that can be done standing up because it involves patience, timing, gentleness, a firm hand, and it is all done in an intimate proximity.

So guys, if you want to have many, many women to choose from, learn to dance.
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I did a search on google

query: "learn to dance" flash -napoleon

*This was at the top of the list. Sosuave is the top search query on the subject. We are at the top of the list on many search queries, just my thought on how many people stumble across this site...*

What are types of dancing people here recommend?

Where can dance moves be used off the floor?

What types of music are most enchanting to a woman?

Why is dance so provocative?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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T Money

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horse****.

If you're there, calm, relaxed, groovin' staring right at her in the eyes, you don't have to be a crazy dancer. Just hold the waist, get close to her. Put your hand in the small of her back.

She'll like that.
 

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I don't post on these forums too often but I just wanted to say that is the greatest thread name I've ever seen.

That is all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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