Learn masculine way of speaking

[Shootin4Dreams]

Any teachers or books for this? So i know-how to talk to a girl proper non feminie way

 

[dustmuffin]

Any teachers or books for this? So i know-how to talk to a girl proper non feminie way

Speak slowly with few words....don't explain yourself

 

[BeExcellent]

Masculine = decisive

I listen when the man is direct. Deliberate in both speech and action. Wishy washy unable to make a decision is a major turn off.

Some men are more talkative naturally than others. Do not squelch who you are (or who you are evolving into) by acting unnaturally.

Have a plan, be direct, and be genuine. Lead and see how she follows your lead.

Worst first date question ever uttered by a man to a woman is:

"So what do you feel like tonight?"

For general conversational skills get The Fine Art of Small Talk. Conversation skills will raise your confidence and ease in social settings. People at ease who are enjoying themselves are attractive people.

 

[JohnChops]

Masculine = decisive

I listen when the man is direct. Deliberate in both speech and action. Wishy washy unable to make a decision is a major turn off.

Some men are more talkative naturally than others. Do not squelch who you are (or who you are evolving into) by acting unnaturally.

Have a plan, be direct, and be genuine. Lead and see how she follows your lead.

Worst first date question ever uttered by a man to a woman is:

"So what do you feel like tonight?"

For general conversational skills get The Fine Art of Small Talk. Conversation skills will raise your confidence and ease in social settings. People at ease who are enjoying themselves are attractive people.

I agree, and don't. Naturally I talk and flirt with everyone but I can get too hyped up/energetic from time to time. I think having a good balance of being relaxed, calmer tone, works a bit better in certain situations. If you're the one doing most of the talking to keep the convo going, then you reveal too much about yourself and learn nothing about the female in front of you.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I don't remember the exact programs/videos/books where this was talked about, but I can point you in the right direction.
1. Jason Capital: he talks (maybe in "Storytelling God") about how to project your voice; but I know that the RSD guys talk about this too.
2. Julien Blanc: in PIMP he talks about breaking rapport better than in this video, but anyhow here it is

. Basically don't use a "questioning" tone, you know what I mean? Don't make your tone higher as you are speaking.
3. Assertiveness. Explore your belief system, destroy that what it's not part of you or makes you weaker, build that that makes you stronger. Once you do this, and start acting accordingly, you will be assertive as ****, as you will be sure of what you are saying.
4. Tone of voice. Nothing you can do if you have a high pitch, just deal with it. Mike from GorillaMIndset has a really high pitched voice and he doesn't give a ****, and you end up forgetting about it.
5. Trump. Learn about how Trump speaks, and use it moderatly, if you are not the SupremeGodEmperorOf****lordly he is, it could backfire. But it is useful in small doses.
Edit: I forgot something really important.
6. Use assumptions instead of questions. Of course, not all the time, but you want to do this specially in the beginning of the interaction. "So you study law" instead of "What do you do", if you are not confident enough to pull this out yet, you can say "so you look like you love arts" or something this general, instead of asking "what are your hobbies".
Good luck brother.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Rougher, gruffer, not necessarily more raspy, but you need to feel like you are powerful. The high school section has a thread stickied that actually is the only thread that mentions this. You don't need to read the whole thing, but a lot of it applies to your life in general, not just to high school kids. Here's the link:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/complete-guide-to-self-improvement.43048/

He has a section titled voice and he quotes it. You need to get to your sympathetic frequency/harmonic motion. Sammo explains how.

Speaking of which, does anyone know what happened to him?

 

[ubercat]

Hang out with guys watching sports. Agree argue take part. It will build your masculine vibe. Soccer is a good team sport to join. Manly enough, low injury and plenty of cardio