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LEANING on women for YOUR happiness and confidence

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One of the worst mistakes made in pickup/mackin/trying to talk to women is relying on her to do for you, what you SHOULD do for yourself. Never rely on someone else for your SELF-esteem. Never rely on someone else for YOUR happiness. Or your sense of security. If you lean on a woman, that creates a very unnatural, beta male dynamic. Improve yourself before you attempt any kind of relationship or attempt relations. Most of the problems on sosuave I see have to do with confidence and self-esteem.

Good game at www.flynesspublishing.com and www.tinyurl.com/flystore. There's one in particular called "From SHY to FLY" which gives you ways on how to conquer yourself so women will see you differently.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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