"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LEANING on women for YOUR happiness and confidence

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One of the worst mistakes made in pickup/mackin/trying to talk to women is relying on her to do for you, what you SHOULD do for yourself. Never rely on someone else for your SELF-esteem. Never rely on someone else for YOUR happiness. Or your sense of security. If you lean on a woman, that creates a very unnatural, beta male dynamic. Improve yourself before you attempt any kind of relationship or attempt relations. Most of the problems on sosuave I see have to do with confidence and self-esteem.

Good game at www.flynesspublishing.com and www.tinyurl.com/flystore. There's one in particular called "From SHY to FLY" which gives you ways on how to conquer yourself so women will see you differently.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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