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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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I have been reading about body language all week. the gurus say when conversing with someone - to not lean in or "peck". I found that I had to do this last night at the bar because it was literally so loud that I could not hear. I mean - I don't know why showing dominance makes me feel like a social robot - but if I have to worry about stuff like that then I do feel like a social robot. I don't really care if leaning in is "submissive" - cause I have good self-confidence. I mean if I wanna hear a girl then I want to hear.
 

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instead of leaning in, stand by her side, look at the crowd ... but make sure u turn your head every now and then to show her that your listening.
Make sure you take a whiff of the hair
 
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The whole purpose of leaning away is to lure her into you. It's done in a way that's so smooth the girl doesn't realize that she's leaning towards you to speak.

In a bar situation, I usually start the conversation off with me saying something, then immediately pulling away a bit so that she has to lean in to tell me her response. At this point, I continue leaning away, and say my next statement which forces her to remain pulled into me.

If she continues this for a couple of exchanges, I reward her by leaning in a little. If she responds well to me leaning in, then I'll try to kiss close. Sooner the better.
 
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