"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have been reading about body language all week. the gurus say when conversing with someone - to not lean in or "peck". I found that I had to do this last night at the bar because it was literally so loud that I could not hear. I mean - I don't know why showing dominance makes me feel like a social robot - but if I have to worry about stuff like that then I do feel like a social robot. I don't really care if leaning in is "submissive" - cause I have good self-confidence. I mean if I wanna hear a girl then I want to hear.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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instead of leaning in, stand by her side, look at the crowd ... but make sure u turn your head every now and then to show her that your listening.
Make sure you take a whiff of the hair
 
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The whole purpose of leaning away is to lure her into you. It's done in a way that's so smooth the girl doesn't realize that she's leaning towards you to speak.

In a bar situation, I usually start the conversation off with me saying something, then immediately pulling away a bit so that she has to lean in to tell me her response. At this point, I continue leaning away, and say my next statement which forces her to remain pulled into me.

If she continues this for a couple of exchanges, I reward her by leaning in a little. If she responds well to me leaning in, then I'll try to kiss close. Sooner the better.
 
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