"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blackbelt2k

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Okay, my game needs a little help. I want to hear how you guys usually bring up the topic of sex into th convo. I know it depends on the situation, and such, but generally, which ways do you find it more casual to bring up the topic of sex with you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jeremymichael

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Why not say you look sexy tonight, and see how she responds. She might initiate it from there.
 

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blackbelt2k said:
Okay, my game needs a little help. I want to hear how you guys usually bring up the topic of sex into th convo. I know it depends on the situation, and such, but generally, which ways do you find it more casual to bring up the topic of sex with you.
Look for openings to introduce sex talk. I have several "sex stories" I can tell if the right opportunity comes up to tell them. There's sexual related questions you can ask that are subtle enough to sneak in. Pay attention to the conversation and just steer it that direction when the opportunity comes. They will come frequently if you look for the openings.
 

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thanks guys, but how about examples. I learn visually, so give me some examples to run through my imagination.
 

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yo just tell a story a friend went through, maybe that'll open a door 4u. neways all girl love that dirt talk, she is probably waitin on u.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should you tell "sex stories" of your own or of others?
 
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