"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blackbelt2k

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Okay, my game needs a little help. I want to hear how you guys usually bring up the topic of sex into th convo. I know it depends on the situation, and such, but generally, which ways do you find it more casual to bring up the topic of sex with you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jeremymichael

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Why not say you look sexy tonight, and see how she responds. She might initiate it from there.
 

azanon

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blackbelt2k said:
Okay, my game needs a little help. I want to hear how you guys usually bring up the topic of sex into th convo. I know it depends on the situation, and such, but generally, which ways do you find it more casual to bring up the topic of sex with you.
Look for openings to introduce sex talk. I have several "sex stories" I can tell if the right opportunity comes up to tell them. There's sexual related questions you can ask that are subtle enough to sneak in. Pay attention to the conversation and just steer it that direction when the opportunity comes. They will come frequently if you look for the openings.
 

blackbelt2k

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thanks guys, but how about examples. I learn visually, so give me some examples to run through my imagination.
 

eagle_instinct

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yo just tell a story a friend went through, maybe that'll open a door 4u. neways all girl love that dirt talk, she is probably waitin on u.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cNfny

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Should you tell "sex stories" of your own or of others?
 
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