"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Leading by example.

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I need a little help here. I have been in with this sort of thing for a long time, but have no idea how to put it to use, or take action on it. It's just that I find it hard to understand certain things, like how to mix ****y and funny. I can EASILY act ****y but I know it has the opposite effect on its own, I am no good at making it funny.

So in short, do any of you guys know any movies where the main character, or one of them, has Don Juan qualities, and acts confident, funny, dominant, etc. etc.

I'd find it tonnes easier to understand and use it then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also please no suggestions of "The Notebook" lol
 

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oceans 11 =] watch brad pitt and george clooney, also fight club brad pitt in that, great examples of alpha males
 

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George Clooney in From Dusk Till Dawn is pretty much the ultimate DJ.
 

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thanks will be renting all 3 (they are all good movies anyway)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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James Bond. Sometimes it's corny, but there are some good examples of ****y and funny there.
 

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Yeah, Fight Club is a good movie. James Bond was a good suggestion too.

Idk how "DJ" these movies are, but they're deffinately alpha male, and make me feel like a badass everytime I watch them.. Scarface and the Godfather. You aren't a real man until you've seen those.
 

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Seen both LOVE 'em...

"Say hello, to my little friend!"

Ha XD
 

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MY PUA Movies of Choice - Ocean's 11 and of course, Swingers.
 

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Oh, and I forgot. Clint Eastwood in The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thank you for suggestions, also will find out more about Christian Bale. Watched From Dusk Till Dawn and it was surprisingly helpful...
 

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This might sound like a weird suggestion, but Mr. Woodcock is another good movie too. What helps the most about watchin this is that the two main characters, Farley and Mr. Woodcock, are betas and alphas respectively. So it's easy to distinguish what you should and should not do. To make it more clearer, study Mr. Woodcock's character, and learn from Farley's mistakes. To be honest Mr. Woodcock is one of the most alpha characters I've watched. He's up there with James Bond IMO.
 
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