"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Leading by example.

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I need a little help here. I have been in with this sort of thing for a long time, but have no idea how to put it to use, or take action on it. It's just that I find it hard to understand certain things, like how to mix ****y and funny. I can EASILY act ****y but I know it has the opposite effect on its own, I am no good at making it funny.

So in short, do any of you guys know any movies where the main character, or one of them, has Don Juan qualities, and acts confident, funny, dominant, etc. etc.

I'd find it tonnes easier to understand and use it then.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Also please no suggestions of "The Notebook" lol
 
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oceans 11 =] watch brad pitt and george clooney, also fight club brad pitt in that, great examples of alpha males
 
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George Clooney in From Dusk Till Dawn is pretty much the ultimate DJ.
 
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thanks will be renting all 3 (they are all good movies anyway)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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James Bond. Sometimes it's corny, but there are some good examples of ****y and funny there.
 
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Yeah, Fight Club is a good movie. James Bond was a good suggestion too.

Idk how "DJ" these movies are, but they're deffinately alpha male, and make me feel like a badass everytime I watch them.. Scarface and the Godfather. You aren't a real man until you've seen those.
 
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Seen both LOVE 'em...

"Say hello, to my little friend!"

Ha XD
 
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MY PUA Movies of Choice - Ocean's 11 and of course, Swingers.
 
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Oh, and I forgot. Clint Eastwood in The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thank you for suggestions, also will find out more about Christian Bale. Watched From Dusk Till Dawn and it was surprisingly helpful...
 
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This might sound like a weird suggestion, but Mr. Woodcock is another good movie too. What helps the most about watchin this is that the two main characters, Farley and Mr. Woodcock, are betas and alphas respectively. So it's easy to distinguish what you should and should not do. To make it more clearer, study Mr. Woodcock's character, and learn from Farley's mistakes. To be honest Mr. Woodcock is one of the most alpha characters I've watched. He's up there with James Bond IMO.
 
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