"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Leading by example.

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I need a little help here. I have been in with this sort of thing for a long time, but have no idea how to put it to use, or take action on it. It's just that I find it hard to understand certain things, like how to mix ****y and funny. I can EASILY act ****y but I know it has the opposite effect on its own, I am no good at making it funny.

So in short, do any of you guys know any movies where the main character, or one of them, has Don Juan qualities, and acts confident, funny, dominant, etc. etc.

I'd find it tonnes easier to understand and use it then.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Also please no suggestions of "The Notebook" lol
 
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oceans 11 =] watch brad pitt and george clooney, also fight club brad pitt in that, great examples of alpha males
 
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George Clooney in From Dusk Till Dawn is pretty much the ultimate DJ.
 
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thanks will be renting all 3 (they are all good movies anyway)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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James Bond. Sometimes it's corny, but there are some good examples of ****y and funny there.
 
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Yeah, Fight Club is a good movie. James Bond was a good suggestion too.

Idk how "DJ" these movies are, but they're deffinately alpha male, and make me feel like a badass everytime I watch them.. Scarface and the Godfather. You aren't a real man until you've seen those.
 
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Seen both LOVE 'em...

"Say hello, to my little friend!"

Ha XD
 
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MY PUA Movies of Choice - Ocean's 11 and of course, Swingers.
 
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Oh, and I forgot. Clint Eastwood in The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thank you for suggestions, also will find out more about Christian Bale. Watched From Dusk Till Dawn and it was surprisingly helpful...
 
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This might sound like a weird suggestion, but Mr. Woodcock is another good movie too. What helps the most about watchin this is that the two main characters, Farley and Mr. Woodcock, are betas and alphas respectively. So it's easy to distinguish what you should and should not do. To make it more clearer, study Mr. Woodcock's character, and learn from Farley's mistakes. To be honest Mr. Woodcock is one of the most alpha characters I've watched. He's up there with James Bond IMO.
 
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