"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lays?

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Don Juan
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So guys,
I'm a curious man and if you're not shy about it, I'd like to know how often you get laid.
Yeah, also, if you feel brave enough to answer, I'd like to know if it's from day game, social circle, night game, online game, etc.
I haven't got laid in 2 years (ouch). It was from school.

Thanks guy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When I was not in a LTR I used to do the online thing hard when I was just wanting a lay. But I never expected more than either a lay and/or female company in general. I always looked at an online date like drinking beer.. go out tonight, do it, and by morning it's done and over and gone. Then your hopes don't get too high.

In order to get laid online though, FIRST, you are going to need to come up with something funny and original to message all prospective women. A "hey whats up" probably won't cut it because she already has 99 others just like that to read.

It's a numbers game. Like fishing. Cast and cast. You will get one eventually.

Longest I ever went without getting laid was 10 months, and that was when I was first divorced on 04 and had no idea what I was doing.

Good luck man
 

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Cool, online game is so alluring but I am not yet in shape. I can't wait, it seem easier compared to cold approach (if you're sexy and shaped right?).
 

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Honestly most of my lays have been from social hang outs/classroom settings.

a few from online (thinking about writing a guide to online dating)

a few from the gym as well
 
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