"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lays?

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Don Juan
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So guys,
I'm a curious man and if you're not shy about it, I'd like to know how often you get laid.
Yeah, also, if you feel brave enough to answer, I'd like to know if it's from day game, social circle, night game, online game, etc.
I haven't got laid in 2 years (ouch). It was from school.

Thanks guy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When I was not in a LTR I used to do the online thing hard when I was just wanting a lay. But I never expected more than either a lay and/or female company in general. I always looked at an online date like drinking beer.. go out tonight, do it, and by morning it's done and over and gone. Then your hopes don't get too high.

In order to get laid online though, FIRST, you are going to need to come up with something funny and original to message all prospective women. A "hey whats up" probably won't cut it because she already has 99 others just like that to read.

It's a numbers game. Like fishing. Cast and cast. You will get one eventually.

Longest I ever went without getting laid was 10 months, and that was when I was first divorced on 04 and had no idea what I was doing.

Good luck man
 

In the present

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Cool, online game is so alluring but I am not yet in shape. I can't wait, it seem easier compared to cold approach (if you're sexy and shaped right?).
 

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Honestly most of my lays have been from social hang outs/classroom settings.

a few from online (thinking about writing a guide to online dating)

a few from the gym as well
 
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