"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Laying down the contract

inkexit

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What's up yall?!

I'm at the point with a girl i recently met where it's about time to f'uck. No need to give too many details, suffice to say, everything looks go.

Now I havent really been a pimp most of my life. Like most of the guys here I imagine, I grew up a symp, and I'm just now starting to learn the ways of the Mack. So I've never actually put out a contract with a woman before.

My contract is easy, just friendship and sex. no comittment, no feelings, no bs. We can hang out like friends, but no "dating," and we can booty call eachother. Thats it. My question is simple, how and when do I throw it out there?

For example, it would prob be easier to wait until after we ****, cuz if she doesn't like what i say, obviously she might not want to **** anymore. But if I wait, maybe she thinks I like, you know, tricked her. She might not like that either. I can see most women as seeing that as a kind of lying.

Should I just tell her straight up next time I see her, or should I wait till we're kissing and **** and she's a bit turned on, or what? And I learn best by example, so if anybody could write out a short little script, or describe the tone of voice they use when they spit the contract, or any kind of details like that, it would be awesome. Also, are there any videos or audio samples of such a disscussion out there?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Allurre

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So, she hasn't exactly inked her approval and agreed with the terms on your contract yet right?

You can either go for the bedroom romp first, then have a sober talk with her about what to expect from you -- that this will be a no strings attached, friends-for-benefits relationship.
 

Ridingthelightning

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Just do what you do and let her bring it up. If you're over 21 then its about time to get used to this, and many women are used to it. Women do this stuff as well, its not just men.
If she hits you with a relationship convo then say exactly whats up.
 
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