"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scars

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Got my first cougar last night. Deff boned some chick who was like my moms age. Kind of a weird thought, but it was actually kind of hott for me and turned me on a bit, the same went for her too.

What I learned.. No matter the age woman are all the same, and the tactics you use on younger girls can also work on older ones. She threw me a couple sh!t tests and an anti-slvt defense and I treated them like I did with all the other girls my age in the past.

Anyway.. met her at a club, and she made it extremely easy for me, sense she was the one that approached me. What's funny is that I was actually kind of embarrassed to even be seen talking to her as I was trying to mack on some girls a little closer to my age range, but she was very persistent. She'd attempt to dance on me and I would just ignore her. She had a friend with her that she introduced me to later on. Her friend, of course, starts hitting on my buddy that I came with. I'm still ignoring cougar girl, but I noticed my buddy is making out with the other one. So after the song finished, I went up to them and pretty much invited myself up to their room. "Do you guys got a room here?" "Yes, why?" "We should go hang out, you know, get to know each other a little more.." Same BS beating around the bush sh!t that worked in HS is still working with her. Anyway. They want to party it up some more, some cougar writes her room number on my hand (she actually wrote it down wrong, and had one more digit then she should had). So we go do our own thing. They run into us again and tell us they're leaving. We say ok, well we're gonna grab a bite to eat. After that we went scouting for the room, and even though what she wrote was wrong, we found it. Within seconds, cougar #2 is pretty much raping my friend. My cougar is a little more relaxed and tells me to sit next to her. So I do and we BS for a bit. Then I find myself making out with her. Then I started rubbing her tits and the anti-slvt defense comes.. "Just because you're in my bed doesn't mean we're having sex." So I said some garbage line like, "That's fine, I just want to talk and get to know you anyway.." and without hesitation I start kissing her again after that. Start rubbing her tits again, and from there she didn't put up any more resistance. I fvcked her good, and I can still hear the sound of her voice saying my name. She actually wasn't that bad looking for her age.

But anyway.. yeah. I'm still kind of drunk and I haven't slept, because right after that my buddy felt bad about cheating on his GF with cougar #2 so we had to bail, which was fine with me. And I haven't slept sense then, so I think I'm gonna do that.

Tonight I got some birthday party of a female friend of mine, so hopefully there will be a second lay report tomorrow as well. But we will see.

My number is now officially 32! Sickkk.

-Scars
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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