"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Laws on giving your number out?

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Does anyone know the laws on this? I gave my girl a number recently and she texted me back, it didn't get sexual and I decided not to pursue things, but I'm wondering what the laws are exactly on this. Are there any? Ive noticed a lot of girls giving me looks recently, and giving out my number to this particular girl confirmed that indeed these girls will likely text me, but I don't want to be doing anything that's against the law, so can anyone clear things up for me here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does anyone know the laws on this? I gave my girl a number recently and she texted me back, it didn't get sexual and I decided not to pursue things, but I'm wondering what the laws are exactly on this. Are there any? Ive noticed a lot of girls giving me looks recently, and giving out my number to this particular girl confirmed that indeed these girls will likely text me, but I don't want to be doing anything that's against the law, so can anyone clear things up for me here?
I dont think there’s any strict “laws” against it, it depends on the situation.

I usually just get the girls number and initiate the first text because you want to stay in the frame of being a leader who does what he pleases and what pleases you at the moment is hitting her up for a date.

This one might have taken the initiative to text you after you gave her your number and others might too, but many won’t.
 
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I haven't just cold-approach given my number out very often in my life, it worked with that girl though, the vibe that I got was: I don't like id give any girl my number unless I was very very sure that she was open to it and would text me back. if I felt any doubt or hesitation I definitely wouldn't give it out. What I'd be worried about is someone a little more crazy turning my number into the police or something.....I think its good advice to make sure to get her number and try not to give mine out actually (unless possibly she asks for it first). Has that ever happened to anyone? Does anyone know the specific law that it could be breaking? Thanks again.
 

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1st off, never give out your real cell or home #. Reason being, they can do a Google search or even background check and possibly find your home address, personal info or social media accounts. You should use either Google Voice or Line2 or MagicJack or any other VOIP provider for a second line. As for etiquette, you can be sexy and intimate and risqué w/o being vulgar or crossing a legal line. No d!ck picks, using words from urban dictionary, etc. Reason being, it can be used against you at a later date. Review some of the text screen shots from @Amante Silvestre as some examples. You're 38, so use proper judgement and converse like an adult; but in a fun and playful matter. If you think something will come off wrong, add a lol or smiles (only one) to the sentence. Apparently, adding a (.) after the last sentence of a text is taken negatively now as well.

HTH
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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