"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Law of scarcity apply???

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I never pursued this girl whio was giving me mad signals so she started mentioning a boyfriend...I KNOW SHE LIKES ME!!

What does it mean when she states" feels like I haven't seen you in ages"? when in reality it is only 2-3 weeks. Could it be she misses me?

This gave me an idea...I am going to "disappear" for a while...law of scarcity!!! Last week she noticed another girl giving me eye contact and laughing at my jokes( she was very nice looking )...she immediately mentioned her bf and their date. She gave me a handshake as a joke gesture..( power of touch ) SHE INITIATED!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you need a steamroller to mow you down? Can you not see that it is time to ask the girl out, pretend boyfriend or not?

Have fun while you ask her; tell her it'll be your little secret. Boytoy doesn't need to know.
 
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Re: conniving skank

I am going to play this girl's bluff and not give a ****....also I am going to flirt with other girls in front of her. She really fell from grace...what a disappointment!
 
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you sound like you are afraid of just coming out and asking her out...Why distance yourself if she's already begging for it?
 
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Re: Re: conniving skank

Originally posted by asxx
I am going to play this girl's bluff and not give a ****....also I am going to flirt with other girls in front of her. She really fell from grace...what a disappointment!
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Why? Ask youself why you are going to go through the trouble of purposely avoiding her and purposely trying to make her jealous. When you can tell me why all this would be better than simply asking her out, post a reply.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this 'law of scarcity' does exist and is an effective tool in a DJ's arsenal.

But it takes practice to use it really effectively, and often times beginners will over-do the scarcity.

A girl I digged back in junior year of H.S. did some little thing that pissed me off, something pretty insignificant, and I thought I'd be scarce for a little while and punish her. I carried it way overboard and she started dating another dude while I was 'punishing' her, lol.

Use it sparingly...and for the most part don't do it intentionally. The best way to be scarce is to have a busy and succesful life.

-E-Z
 
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