"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Law of scarcity apply???

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I never pursued this girl whio was giving me mad signals so she started mentioning a boyfriend...I KNOW SHE LIKES ME!!

What does it mean when she states" feels like I haven't seen you in ages"? when in reality it is only 2-3 weeks. Could it be she misses me?

This gave me an idea...I am going to "disappear" for a while...law of scarcity!!! Last week she noticed another girl giving me eye contact and laughing at my jokes( she was very nice looking )...she immediately mentioned her bf and their date. She gave me a handshake as a joke gesture..( power of touch ) SHE INITIATED!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you need a steamroller to mow you down? Can you not see that it is time to ask the girl out, pretend boyfriend or not?

Have fun while you ask her; tell her it'll be your little secret. Boytoy doesn't need to know.
 
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Re: conniving skank

I am going to play this girl's bluff and not give a ****....also I am going to flirt with other girls in front of her. She really fell from grace...what a disappointment!
 
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you sound like you are afraid of just coming out and asking her out...Why distance yourself if she's already begging for it?
 
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Re: Re: conniving skank

Originally posted by asxx
I am going to play this girl's bluff and not give a ****....also I am going to flirt with other girls in front of her. She really fell from grace...what a disappointment!
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Why? Ask youself why you are going to go through the trouble of purposely avoiding her and purposely trying to make her jealous. When you can tell me why all this would be better than simply asking her out, post a reply.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this 'law of scarcity' does exist and is an effective tool in a DJ's arsenal.

But it takes practice to use it really effectively, and often times beginners will over-do the scarcity.

A girl I digged back in junior year of H.S. did some little thing that pissed me off, something pretty insignificant, and I thought I'd be scarce for a little while and punish her. I carried it way overboard and she started dating another dude while I was 'punishing' her, lol.

Use it sparingly...and for the most part don't do it intentionally. The best way to be scarce is to have a busy and succesful life.

-E-Z
 
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