You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
True. MGTOWs should say even less and go their own ways instead of ranting on seduction forums.:-) said:always say less than necessary.
Yeah, you should take your own advice lolHollowpoints said:True. MGTOWs should say even less and go their own ways instead of ranting on seduction forums.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
As you can see, Hollowpoints is a woman so she says more than is necessary.Hollowpoints said:True. MGTOWs should say even less and go their own ways instead of ranting on seduction forums.
Not nearly as low as paying a stripper to "like" you. :crackup:bigneil said:As you can see, Hollowpoints is a woman so she says more than is necessary.
BTW congratulations Hollowpoints for reaching a record low status in her very first month, and in so few posts. She is remarkably efficient at spewing nonsense.
:crackup: All strippers. Too try hard lil neil. Save your mgtow money instead of blowing it on dancers who make their living taking off their clothes for money and drugs from other betasbigneil said:Hollowpoints wishes that were the case, because she knows no man will ever pursue her sorry fat azs.
Looking at my phone I have text messages from 5 beautiful women, 4 of whom texted in the past 36 hours:
1) 46 year old lady from IL who met me Friday at a restaurant, who found me on LinkedIn, said how nice it was to meet someone with style and class, and is now stalking me.
2) 21 year old beauty from OK who I will be seeing Friday when I return to get my stuff. Met at her restaurant 5 months ago, took her on 2 dates including one overnight date.
3) 21 year old actual Playboy Bunny from GA who is a stripper and gave me her number Saturday when I met her. Looks like Daryl Hannah in Blade Runner.
4) 22 year old beauty from TX who I've had sex with in 5 cities and counting. She wants me to marry her. Met at strip club over a year ago.
5) 32 year old Russian beauty who I used to live with in NY who still loves me. Met at grocery store 2 years ago.
How much did I spend on these 5 girls in the last month, combined? $100 (given to Daryl Hannah).
The most logical explanation for how I picked up 5 beauties, average age 28, born over a 25 year span in 5 states is the simplest one: that they liked me.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
prison/con.net said:"I just post for my own entertainment."
That's a bit tragic. The enrichment of your existence must be the envy of your peers, far and wide.
"about 1 reader in 100 has anything coherent to say and only about 1 in 10 ever post,"
I would argue that the members of this forum demonstrate an above average level of coherence compared to the rest of the internet.
As an aside, not sure how you are objectifying or sourcing your statistics, but they are certainly making you sound wicked smart, they really are :yes:
"so the odds are very low of there being any responses worth answering."
One thing always worth taking in to account, is that opinions are a bit like ass-holes; everyone has one, and most of them stink.
A 46 year old stripper?Hollowpoints said::crackup: All strippers. Too try hard lil neil.
Look at you all emotional. Your alleged life revolves around strip clubs. That's the lowest form of getting females. You prefer strippers because you can't get quality females but only those who you can feel "better" than.bigneil said:A 46 year old stripper?
A stripper from the grocery store?
A stripper who was so young and sweet I didn't lay a finger on her?
If they were all strippers then they only charged me $20 each on average. That would be the best deal in the history of humanity. But if you'd prefer a fat, old, foreign, bitter, feminist cvnt who has the lowest rating the history of SS, follow the advice of Hollowpoints (as if she would ever own a gun!)