You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True. MGTOWs should say even less and go their own ways instead of ranting on seduction forums.:-) said:always say less than necessary.
Yeah, you should take your own advice lolHollowpoints said:True. MGTOWs should say even less and go their own ways instead of ranting on seduction forums.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
As you can see, Hollowpoints is a woman so she says more than is necessary.Hollowpoints said:True. MGTOWs should say even less and go their own ways instead of ranting on seduction forums.
Not nearly as low as paying a stripper to "like" you. :crackup:bigneil said:As you can see, Hollowpoints is a woman so she says more than is necessary.
BTW congratulations Hollowpoints for reaching a record low status in her very first month, and in so few posts. She is remarkably efficient at spewing nonsense.
:crackup: All strippers. Too try hard lil neil. Save your mgtow money instead of blowing it on dancers who make their living taking off their clothes for money and drugs from other betasbigneil said:Hollowpoints wishes that were the case, because she knows no man will ever pursue her sorry fat azs.
Looking at my phone I have text messages from 5 beautiful women, 4 of whom texted in the past 36 hours:
1) 46 year old lady from IL who met me Friday at a restaurant, who found me on LinkedIn, said how nice it was to meet someone with style and class, and is now stalking me.
2) 21 year old beauty from OK who I will be seeing Friday when I return to get my stuff. Met at her restaurant 5 months ago, took her on 2 dates including one overnight date.
3) 21 year old actual Playboy Bunny from GA who is a stripper and gave me her number Saturday when I met her. Looks like Daryl Hannah in Blade Runner.
4) 22 year old beauty from TX who I've had sex with in 5 cities and counting. She wants me to marry her. Met at strip club over a year ago.
5) 32 year old Russian beauty who I used to live with in NY who still loves me. Met at grocery store 2 years ago.
How much did I spend on these 5 girls in the last month, combined? $100 (given to Daryl Hannah).
The most logical explanation for how I picked up 5 beauties, average age 28, born over a 25 year span in 5 states is the simplest one: that they liked me.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
prison/con.net said:"I just post for my own entertainment."
That's a bit tragic. The enrichment of your existence must be the envy of your peers, far and wide.
"about 1 reader in 100 has anything coherent to say and only about 1 in 10 ever post,"
I would argue that the members of this forum demonstrate an above average level of coherence compared to the rest of the internet.
As an aside, not sure how you are objectifying or sourcing your statistics, but they are certainly making you sound wicked smart, they really are :yes:
"so the odds are very low of there being any responses worth answering."
One thing always worth taking in to account, is that opinions are a bit like ass-holes; everyone has one, and most of them stink.
A 46 year old stripper?Hollowpoints said::crackup: All strippers. Too try hard lil neil.
Look at you all emotional. Your alleged life revolves around strip clubs. That's the lowest form of getting females. You prefer strippers because you can't get quality females but only those who you can feel "better" than.bigneil said:A 46 year old stripper?
A stripper from the grocery store?
A stripper who was so young and sweet I didn't lay a finger on her?
If they were all strippers then they only charged me $20 each on average. That would be the best deal in the history of humanity. But if you'd prefer a fat, old, foreign, bitter, feminist cvnt who has the lowest rating the history of SS, follow the advice of Hollowpoints (as if she would ever own a gun!)