"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Laughing/Smiling less often?

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In DYD, de Angelo gives the advice of smiling and laughing less often, which contradicts the advice given in this site.
I think that if you don't smile or laugh you could come off as boring or intimidating, or both.
I don't really know why deAngelo came up with this idea.
Or perhaps I am wrong and there could be some truth behind his affirmation.
What do you guys think about this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I find laughing and smiling is better.

Today for example, I smiled at every girl I walked by. Every single one smiled back and said a greeting. If I didn't smile, that wouldn't have happened.
 
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I think what he is trying to say is that there is a difference between a clown and a dj. A clown is always trying to please everyone. A dj is trying to create an aura that says I can please anyone and then has the ability to focus on a target. I like to smile, laugh, and have a great time so I do it, but I make sure I dont look like an idiot. Use your own descretion, do what you want and make sure you realize how your actions reciprocate themselves.
 
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smiling is always better then being serious, thats from experiance.
 
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laughing/Smiling Less

Well, where I came from, its just big difference, David D is correct, Smiling will make someone smile, or feel gratitude, but keeping a straight face works better. Smile Less, and don't laugh at your own jokes are always the thing that cracks up. If you have read the Weapons of Mass Seduction you'll find it amazing. You'll even ask your self how did you do it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quote from a woman:

" In fact, smiling is half the battle so don't be shy to show her those Crest enhanced teeth of yours.

By smiling you will appear happy which shows that you are having a good time and are comfortable in your surroundings. This will rub off on those around you and open up the "vibe" which makes it easier to score. "
 
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smile when you greet people/talking to them/ or if you have a reason to, such as thinking good thoughts. dont smile 24/7 obviously...as you'll come of as a weirdo.

but be careful with smiling too much, you'll come off as a softie...or pvssy for that matter. Smile when you should, not whenever you can.
 
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