"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Laughing/Smiling less often?

dj_spain

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In DYD, de Angelo gives the advice of smiling and laughing less often, which contradicts the advice given in this site.
I think that if you don't smile or laugh you could come off as boring or intimidating, or both.
I don't really know why deAngelo came up with this idea.
Or perhaps I am wrong and there could be some truth behind his affirmation.
What do you guys think about this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AverageFC

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I find laughing and smiling is better.

Today for example, I smiled at every girl I walked by. Every single one smiled back and said a greeting. If I didn't smile, that wouldn't have happened.
 

exwhyzee

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I think what he is trying to say is that there is a difference between a clown and a dj. A clown is always trying to please everyone. A dj is trying to create an aura that says I can please anyone and then has the ability to focus on a target. I like to smile, laugh, and have a great time so I do it, but I make sure I dont look like an idiot. Use your own descretion, do what you want and make sure you realize how your actions reciprocate themselves.
 

griffon65

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smiling is always better then being serious, thats from experiance.
 

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laughing/Smiling Less

Well, where I came from, its just big difference, David D is correct, Smiling will make someone smile, or feel gratitude, but keeping a straight face works better. Smile Less, and don't laugh at your own jokes are always the thing that cracks up. If you have read the Weapons of Mass Seduction you'll find it amazing. You'll even ask your self how did you do it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tmpgstx

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Quote from a woman:

" In fact, smiling is half the battle so don't be shy to show her those Crest enhanced teeth of yours.

By smiling you will appear happy which shows that you are having a good time and are comfortable in your surroundings. This will rub off on those around you and open up the "vibe" which makes it easier to score. "
 

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smile when you greet people/talking to them/ or if you have a reason to, such as thinking good thoughts. dont smile 24/7 obviously...as you'll come of as a weirdo.

but be careful with smiling too much, you'll come off as a softie...or pvssy for that matter. Smile when you should, not whenever you can.
 
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