"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lately people used to fight... now it seems human are so passive against all the sh1ts happening.

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An idea that came in my mind. I see a lot of crazy stuffs happening in the world... and it seems everyone is passive about it.

All the sh1ts, all the bad things... And it seems people got the belief that: "oh we can't fight because this is being agressive, so lets find another (confortable) way."

Wasn't that only a tactic to mass manipulate population and keep them in that inactivity state so the dark can keep reigning?

Sometimes I think media, and all those communications means those guys in the "power" have, are brainwashing people.

Or we as human beings love to suffer and live on sh1t.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The majority of people prefer to believe rather than to think. Sadly, this means that the majority of people can be easily persuaded to adopt thoughts and attitudes that aren’t actually to their own well-being or best interest.

it’s not that I advocate violence, but it blows my mind that there are men (my age or younger) that have never been in an actual fist fight.
 

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The majority of people prefer to believe rather than to think. Sadly, this means that the majority of people can be easily persuaded to adopt thoughts and attitudes that aren’t actually to their own well-being or best interest.

it’s not that I advocate violence, but it blows my mind that there are men (my age or younger) that have never been in an actual fist fight.
Good point.

Violence seems to be a natural aspect of life. Animals killing each other, the fact of death is also something violent.

I think human tend to fantasize a lot, and those fantasies can make us weaker.
 

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Most of us are only few bad days away from being violent...

Nothing to lose in the long term and a couple of bad days in the short term, its all it takes for someone.

Think of what will happens once most millennials reaching their 40s will find out that there is no happy ending...no stable job, no retirement and no woman for them.
 

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Do you have an example of such a situation that troubles you, and what you think the people should be doing instead?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you have an example of such a situation that troubles you, and what you think the people should be doing instead?
One of then could be corruption. Maybe we should fight for against those lies (not only being violent).

But here in Brazil for example, people went to streets to show their madness, but at the end it was like a carnival for them at corruption. They dont even know why they were there. And it didnt solve anything.

By fighting maybe would be definitely committing to make a real change. Not pretending it.

My personal example. I was raised being psychologically abused, most people around can see it, and all they say is: "Just live your life, its not that bad."

Some people who usually say that would be by my side I just found out they were enablers for that abuser. Im not asking them to defend me... But they can see, and they just keep in silence.

But being violent or evil would not solve that too. Maybe I have to rethink what is the idea of fighting. Fighting could mean a lot of things... Maybe fighting with honesty and not being violent or doing bad things.

Now I have to think about that idea. That was a good question you made!
 

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Think of what will happens once most millennials reaching their 40s will find out that there is no happy ending...no stable job, no retirement and no woman for them.
I think that is whats happening to me.

Seeing life without masks or being out of the matrix can be very painful.

I dont want to go out there doing violent things, but this pain sometimes create a sense of void or darkness. Its like walking alone outside that Matrix and just observing how things are alone.
 

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One of then could be corruption. Maybe we should fight for against those lies (not only being violent).

But here in Brazil for example, people went to streets to show their madness, but at the end it was like a carnival for them at corruption. They dont even know why they were there. And it didnt solve anything.

By fighting maybe would be definitely committing to make a real change. Not pretending it.

My personal example. I was raised being psychologically abused, most people around can see it, and all they say is: "Just live your life, its not that bad."

Some people who usually say that would be by my side I just found out they were enablers for that abuser. Im not asking them to defend me... But they can see, and they just keep in silence.

But being violent or evil would not solve that too. Maybe I have to rethink what is the idea of fighting. Fighting could mean a lot of things... Maybe fighting with honesty and not being violent or doing bad things.

Now I have to think about that idea. That was a good question you made!
All right man haha, im not sure what to say in response to this, but im glad you got something to think about over it and ill happily answer anything concrete.
 

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These people will sell your babies then go home and sleep like one, the social conscience has become manifest... The issues have never been more in our face and we have never been more distracted lol, its quite comical when you really think about it
 

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I beg to differ, sir. I think folks are fighting more & more, although they are doing in the realm of the meme, not the realm of the flesh. No ones goes to jail for calling someone else an a33hole. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol do not think for a second people are passive, the bottom line is that the field the wars are fought on now are digital and we are just channeling our propensity for war through that medium now... Has become a war of words, images, video and narrative now, as opposed to the past, when we engaged in warfare directly.

Our appetite for war is unchanged, the medium is just different.
 
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