"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lately I've been getting a buttload of **** tests from multiple women

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Yeah, women around here, within the social circle, are **** testing the heck out of me. The men do outnumber the women substantially, thus the **** tests. These are from women who have displayed plenty of IOIs or friends of those females. A common theme is the "blowoff", sometimes verbal with a prissy little "I'm not talking to you" though their body language is flirty and playful. Then there's the ignoring, with the stiff as a board lack of eye contact when spoken to or passed, pretty transparent and looks constipated (though I see a lot of stolen glances when I dress nice or talk to high vlaue people, though they're quick to look away). And I've been getting asked if "are you a good guy or just some ladies' man?". Oh yeah, and my favorite "why don't you like me?" (sneaky). The guys around here have affirmed I have sexual value and obviously have some interest toward me. So what are good responses to these tests? I've been hearing these same ol' tests a lot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my place or your place? there is your response
 
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Chances are if you have to ask a community of guys learning to be good with women from the internet.
Who are more than ready to spout anything they can remember that's relevant from the 100's of articles they've read then no matter how awesome the keyboard-jockey's reply is you probably couldn't pull it off authentically.

Just a thought.
 
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Q. What do women love?
A. Attention

By doing this to you they are getting the attention they desire. I wouldn't really call them tests as just women being women. Try not to take the bait and play by your own rules.
 
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