"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lately I've been getting a buttload of **** tests from multiple women

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Yeah, women around here, within the social circle, are **** testing the heck out of me. The men do outnumber the women substantially, thus the **** tests. These are from women who have displayed plenty of IOIs or friends of those females. A common theme is the "blowoff", sometimes verbal with a prissy little "I'm not talking to you" though their body language is flirty and playful. Then there's the ignoring, with the stiff as a board lack of eye contact when spoken to or passed, pretty transparent and looks constipated (though I see a lot of stolen glances when I dress nice or talk to high vlaue people, though they're quick to look away). And I've been getting asked if "are you a good guy or just some ladies' man?". Oh yeah, and my favorite "why don't you like me?" (sneaky). The guys around here have affirmed I have sexual value and obviously have some interest toward me. So what are good responses to these tests? I've been hearing these same ol' tests a lot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my place or your place? there is your response
 
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Chances are if you have to ask a community of guys learning to be good with women from the internet.
Who are more than ready to spout anything they can remember that's relevant from the 100's of articles they've read then no matter how awesome the keyboard-jockey's reply is you probably couldn't pull it off authentically.

Just a thought.
 
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Q. What do women love?
A. Attention

By doing this to you they are getting the attention they desire. I wouldn't really call them tests as just women being women. Try not to take the bait and play by your own rules.
 
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