"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lately I've been getting a buttload of **** tests from multiple women

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Yeah, women around here, within the social circle, are **** testing the heck out of me. The men do outnumber the women substantially, thus the **** tests. These are from women who have displayed plenty of IOIs or friends of those females. A common theme is the "blowoff", sometimes verbal with a prissy little "I'm not talking to you" though their body language is flirty and playful. Then there's the ignoring, with the stiff as a board lack of eye contact when spoken to or passed, pretty transparent and looks constipated (though I see a lot of stolen glances when I dress nice or talk to high vlaue people, though they're quick to look away). And I've been getting asked if "are you a good guy or just some ladies' man?". Oh yeah, and my favorite "why don't you like me?" (sneaky). The guys around here have affirmed I have sexual value and obviously have some interest toward me. So what are good responses to these tests? I've been hearing these same ol' tests a lot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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my place or your place? there is your response
 
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Chances are if you have to ask a community of guys learning to be good with women from the internet.
Who are more than ready to spout anything they can remember that's relevant from the 100's of articles they've read then no matter how awesome the keyboard-jockey's reply is you probably couldn't pull it off authentically.

Just a thought.
 
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Q. What do women love?
A. Attention

By doing this to you they are getting the attention they desire. I wouldn't really call them tests as just women being women. Try not to take the bait and play by your own rules.
 
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