"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lately I've been attracted to male traits in women...

ARrocket

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I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kinda, in phases.. but overall, no, not really. You're probably just fed up with feminine bullsh!t and want to try some new personality 'profiles' - Nothing wrong with that. You're young... explore/see what's out there, find what you dislike/like in personalities.


"I've been thinkin about fvcking a dude! (no homo)" lols lonely island
 

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Yes. A girl with a guy's sense of humor can be fun. Generally, a girl that has a brother or all brothers (no sisters) will have this trait.

Don't get me wrong, I still want her to be a lady in public. But I like a female that isn't offended by occassional swearing or dirty jokes when we are not in public.

I'm not the most macho guy, but straight as an arrow. I hate the term "metrosexual," but I'm sort of one of those. Thus I tend to attract women that are very slightly tomboyish.



ARrocket said:
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!
 

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Everyone likes this types because they are more fun to be around and not necessarily masculine. I don't know how they are in bed- always wanted to try. They usually have gay girl friends at times and a lot of guys as friends. P.S. I actually checked out a dude today. ( no homo)
 

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PapiChulo said:
Everyone likes this types because they are more fun to be around and not necessarily masculine. I don't know how they are in bed- always wanted to try. They usually have gay girl friends at times and a lot of guys as friends. P.S. I actually checked out a dude today. ( no homo)
They are very good in bed actually. They are slightly more aggressive about getting in the sack, but submissive once you get them there. I would recommend you try it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah you guys are right, also, I think it has to do with the fact that I can completely "be myself" around these chicks. I can literally talk to them like I talk to my friends.
 

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ARrocket said:
Yeah you guys are right, also, I think it has to do with the fact that I can completely "be myself" around these chicks. I can literally talk to them like I talk to my friends.
Yes, that is the appeal. I don't want to have to "weigh my words" or "walk on eggshells." I love to talk to women like I'm talking with my best buddy.
 

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Don't most guys like girls like that???

My ex gf was a girl like that. Mouth like a sailor. Very straight forward and doesn't take sh1t from anyone. She is also very athletic with great muscle tone. She has a bangin body


Guys go crazy over her. She even admits it's because she acts sort of like a dude. You don't have to point out your straightness because it's not entirely a matter of sexuality. It's just that people tend to like people similar to themselves
 

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Girls like this rule. When I was a lot younger I dated a chick that liked a lot of the same music as me and smoking weed. Everytime we hungout was a blast. I will admit though, It's sorta hard to keep things interesting when a guy and a girl have almost everything in common, but it just feels so awesome haha.
 

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ARrocket said:
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!
I know what you mean dude. These girls are a lot of fun, but they sometimes get annoying! They don't know when to stop! And sometimes they try too hard.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I like women like Elaine from Seinfeld or Roz from Frasier. They're feminine looking, but not total girly girls, and they have a quick sense of humor and relate well to men. I like women that "get it" and don't rely on their looks to get by.

The swearing, tom boy look...not into that...but I love when a girl thinks like a guy and is still physically attractive.

Never have got along well with total girly girl types that overdress and are all about their appearance.
 

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It's because they are more approachable and genuine. The girly girls basically act like they are god's gift and no one is worth their attention. That gets old and annoying fast. Usually turns out that the girly girls have little to no personality hence the reason they are so fixated on their looks etc.
 

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satelliteparties said:
I like women like Elaine from Seinfeld or Roz from Frasier. They're feminine looking, but not total girly girls, and they have a quick sense of humor....
A quick wit is probably my number one desired non-physical trait.

And Seinfeld and Frasier are pretty much my two favorite TV shows. In that order.
 

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ARrocket said:
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!

"sigh of relief" hwen i read the title i was thinking girls with masculine jaws and hair in places , and deep voices lol so im glad to hear its just chuds (i call tomboys chuds) , they ar chicks , but there dudes , you could date one , n still chill with her afterward , and almost every chuds guy friends are like in love with her but cant get her if their life depended on it
 
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