"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lately I've been attracted to male traits in women...

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I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kinda, in phases.. but overall, no, not really. You're probably just fed up with feminine bullsh!t and want to try some new personality 'profiles' - Nothing wrong with that. You're young... explore/see what's out there, find what you dislike/like in personalities.


"I've been thinkin about fvcking a dude! (no homo)" lols lonely island
 

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Yes. A girl with a guy's sense of humor can be fun. Generally, a girl that has a brother or all brothers (no sisters) will have this trait.

Don't get me wrong, I still want her to be a lady in public. But I like a female that isn't offended by occassional swearing or dirty jokes when we are not in public.

I'm not the most macho guy, but straight as an arrow. I hate the term "metrosexual," but I'm sort of one of those. Thus I tend to attract women that are very slightly tomboyish.



ARrocket said:
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!
 

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Everyone likes this types because they are more fun to be around and not necessarily masculine. I don't know how they are in bed- always wanted to try. They usually have gay girl friends at times and a lot of guys as friends. P.S. I actually checked out a dude today. ( no homo)
 

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PapiChulo said:
Everyone likes this types because they are more fun to be around and not necessarily masculine. I don't know how they are in bed- always wanted to try. They usually have gay girl friends at times and a lot of guys as friends. P.S. I actually checked out a dude today. ( no homo)
They are very good in bed actually. They are slightly more aggressive about getting in the sack, but submissive once you get them there. I would recommend you try it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah you guys are right, also, I think it has to do with the fact that I can completely "be myself" around these chicks. I can literally talk to them like I talk to my friends.
 

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ARrocket said:
Yeah you guys are right, also, I think it has to do with the fact that I can completely "be myself" around these chicks. I can literally talk to them like I talk to my friends.
Yes, that is the appeal. I don't want to have to "weigh my words" or "walk on eggshells." I love to talk to women like I'm talking with my best buddy.
 

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Don't most guys like girls like that???

My ex gf was a girl like that. Mouth like a sailor. Very straight forward and doesn't take sh1t from anyone. She is also very athletic with great muscle tone. She has a bangin body


Guys go crazy over her. She even admits it's because she acts sort of like a dude. You don't have to point out your straightness because it's not entirely a matter of sexuality. It's just that people tend to like people similar to themselves
 

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Girls like this rule. When I was a lot younger I dated a chick that liked a lot of the same music as me and smoking weed. Everytime we hungout was a blast. I will admit though, It's sorta hard to keep things interesting when a guy and a girl have almost everything in common, but it just feels so awesome haha.
 

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ARrocket said:
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!
I know what you mean dude. These girls are a lot of fun, but they sometimes get annoying! They don't know when to stop! And sometimes they try too hard.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I like women like Elaine from Seinfeld or Roz from Frasier. They're feminine looking, but not total girly girls, and they have a quick sense of humor and relate well to men. I like women that "get it" and don't rely on their looks to get by.

The swearing, tom boy look...not into that...but I love when a girl thinks like a guy and is still physically attractive.

Never have got along well with total girly girl types that overdress and are all about their appearance.
 

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It's because they are more approachable and genuine. The girly girls basically act like they are god's gift and no one is worth their attention. That gets old and annoying fast. Usually turns out that the girly girls have little to no personality hence the reason they are so fixated on their looks etc.
 

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satelliteparties said:
I like women like Elaine from Seinfeld or Roz from Frasier. They're feminine looking, but not total girly girls, and they have a quick sense of humor....
A quick wit is probably my number one desired non-physical trait.

And Seinfeld and Frasier are pretty much my two favorite TV shows. In that order.
 

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ARrocket said:
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They don't have to be tomboys, and in fact, usually are not. Just not so sensitive about things and not all that feminine, in the traditional sense of the word. Anybody else experience anything like that?

PS: No homo!

"sigh of relief" hwen i read the title i was thinking girls with masculine jaws and hair in places , and deep voices lol so im glad to hear its just chuds (i call tomboys chuds) , they ar chicks , but there dudes , you could date one , n still chill with her afterward , and almost every chuds guy friends are like in love with her but cant get her if their life depended on it
 
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