"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lasts nights date (one-i-tis)

frivolousz21

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first off she called me about 430 before work..we talked for 20 min....then set plans to see 4 brothers.


later 10:13 pm..i phoned her..talked till i got there at 10:17....she gave me a picture of her with chicago cubs stuff on..she took in chi-town...im a die hard cards fan...so she framed it..thought it would be funny. it was a great moment and it was funny!


we left at 1030...watched the movie till 1245...got to her house..sat in my car..till 145.(talked, kissed, touchin, talking about how great it is and lucky we are) just giving affection..got out of car...hugged and kissed....and said i love you for the 10th time that night. made plans for saturday and monday.

left at 155.


so with my massive case of ONE-I-TIS...

weve been together for 3 months.....I figure the deep love she is falling into for me will end in 2 weeks..since I have One-i-tis and she will instantly lose her feelings for me...even though she loves, respects, and thinks im a very confident powerful man. but since i show her i love her immensly she will for sure leave me...i should tell her I want other women..or make myself scarse for a week to prevent this..but since I have, well u guessed it ONE-I-tis....i tell her and show her i love her and she is the one for me.

i will let u know when my bad case of one-i-tis ruins this..I predict 2 weeks.

:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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we all learn from our mistakes. Same thing will probably hapen to me to. And i'll pobably do the same thing your about to do, knowing the result...

sometimes you just got smack your face against the wall before you accept the truth...;) Let us know haw it goes.
 

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I hope you get the massive Sarcastic overtones of my post.

its amazing the brainwashing that has gone on to some of you.
 

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dude, he's just joking.

he's saying that it's okay to be in love...especially since he is/has been

...and that not everything in the djb should be taken at face value...it's all relative

good for you friv...we're all happy for you :D
 

Blatant truth

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Where does the djb say love is bad?

If it doesn't, all you guys need to stop acting like it does.

Love is *not* one-itis

Period, end of story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Great job, saw the subject of this post and it created so much anger that I apilt bong water all over me.

Listen, one-i-tis is not the thing you want. It does not mean "love" for someone. A oneitits means that you are obsessive and a stalker, because you think you CANT live without them.

Although from your post you realize that you are becoming these qualities, but half the problem is solved becaused you realized it.

Cut back on all the "I love yous" , make some challenges and create SOME mystery. Put these all back in forth while going out, nothing big and not very numerous.

In picture turms, when she goes to hug you push her back just alittle bit, but just enough so she cant quite touch you and slide away and make her chase you.
 

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I am joking....I dont have 0ne-I-tis!
Yes you do, I have the IM messages to prove it...

Ok maybe I don't...

frivolousz21, the champion of Love.

Cheers!
 
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