That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
why would lasting long be a militant feminist thing??? if two people enjoy having long powerful sex - how it that 'militant feminisim?'....MatureDJ said:
Just curious how many of you who have trouble lasting long drink alot of coffee or at least 2 or 3 cups a day. I've read some stuff about how caffeine in particular coffee can cause premature ejaculation. This website i saw said that in alot of cases many men eliminate their premature ejacualtion by not drinking coffee anymore. It said that caffeine does soemthing to the parsympathetic nerve or somethign like that, and causes you to lose voluntary control over it, thus cvmming to soon. I've noticed very recently that if i have sex within 1 or 2, even 3 hours of having my last cup of coffee i am terrible in bed and cvm in like a minute if i dont stop and start a little, and even then sometimes i cant even stop it. But when i have sex later in the day at least 4 or 5 hrs from my last caffeinated beverage which is usually around 3 or 4 pm, i can last alot longer, sometimes as long as i want. I also find that when im tired i dont last very long and when im well rested i am better. Also when i do exercise earlier in the day i usually last longer. I think erection strenght also has somethign to do with how long u can last, but nothing ive noticed is as major as the coffee thing.Irs88 said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think the people that are suffering from this last alot less than 15 minutes. believe me coming from someone who has dealt with this a little, i wisah i could last 5 mintues sometimes let alone 15. Guys with PE cvm in like a min or 2, and some of the extreme cases cvm before pentration which is just insane to me, i cant even imagine that. Now when u say 15 minutes, are u talking about 15 minutes of noninterrupted thrusting? Or do u get close to cvmming and stop for a few seconds here and there. I mean obviouisly ur not a robot u gotta take abreather every once in a while but im talkin bout intentional stopping so u dont come.MatureDJ said:
