That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
why would lasting long be a militant feminist thing??? if two people enjoy having long powerful sex - how it that 'militant feminisim?'....MatureDJ said:
Just curious how many of you who have trouble lasting long drink alot of coffee or at least 2 or 3 cups a day. I've read some stuff about how caffeine in particular coffee can cause premature ejaculation. This website i saw said that in alot of cases many men eliminate their premature ejacualtion by not drinking coffee anymore. It said that caffeine does soemthing to the parsympathetic nerve or somethign like that, and causes you to lose voluntary control over it, thus cvmming to soon. I've noticed very recently that if i have sex within 1 or 2, even 3 hours of having my last cup of coffee i am terrible in bed and cvm in like a minute if i dont stop and start a little, and even then sometimes i cant even stop it. But when i have sex later in the day at least 4 or 5 hrs from my last caffeinated beverage which is usually around 3 or 4 pm, i can last alot longer, sometimes as long as i want. I also find that when im tired i dont last very long and when im well rested i am better. Also when i do exercise earlier in the day i usually last longer. I think erection strenght also has somethign to do with how long u can last, but nothing ive noticed is as major as the coffee thing.Irs88 said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think the people that are suffering from this last alot less than 15 minutes. believe me coming from someone who has dealt with this a little, i wisah i could last 5 mintues sometimes let alone 15. Guys with PE cvm in like a min or 2, and some of the extreme cases cvm before pentration which is just insane to me, i cant even imagine that. Now when u say 15 minutes, are u talking about 15 minutes of noninterrupted thrusting? Or do u get close to cvmming and stop for a few seconds here and there. I mean obviouisly ur not a robot u gotta take abreather every once in a while but im talkin bout intentional stopping so u dont come.MatureDJ said:
