"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Last night in the club

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Went to the club to celebrate a mate's birthday, having fun minding our own business.

At some point i was outside in the smoker area and there i somehow started talking to a girl. I wasn't even trying to flirt because of to much alcohol my conversation skills where limited.
She mentioned also that she just got dumped.

I left again and crossed her on the dancefloor where some guy was trying to dance with her. While passing we looked at each other and both of us smiled as she recognised me. I wasn't really interested in her because she was drunk and probably just looking for something to make her ex jealous or something.

Anyway all this to say nothing happened until we wanted to leave, we all got up and waited for the last to join. It happenend that she was walking towards us where i noticed her and gave her a smirk. She kept walking up to me and stopped to kiss me out of the blue. Then kept on walking.

Boy was i confused...
However it was some kind of self confidence boost, because she wouldn't do that to some random ugly fatty.

The funny part was one of my mates after it happened went: "You lucky bastard"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Went to the club to celebrate a mate's birthday, having fun minding our own business.

At some point i was outside in the smoker area and there i somehow started talking to a girl. I wasn't even trying to flirt because of to much alcohol my conversation skills where limited.
She mentioned also that she just got dumped.

I left again and crossed her on the dancefloor where some guy was trying to dance with her. While passing we looked at each other and both of us smiled as she recognised me. I wasn't really interested in her because she was drunk and probably just looking for something to make her ex jealous or something.

Anyway all this to say nothing happened until we wanted to leave, we all got up and waited for the last to join. It happenend that she was walking towards us where i noticed her and gave her a smirk. She kept walking up to me and stopped to kiss me out of the blue. Then kept on walking.

Boy was i confused...
However it was some kind of self confidence boost, because she wouldn't do that to some random ugly fatty.

The funny part was one of my mates after it happened went: "You lucky bastard"
You appear to be describing this as a romantic comedy

Not the best mindset to have
 

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You appear to be describing this as a romantic comedy

Not the best mindset to have
What do you mean ? I described as close to reality as i could plus i consumed a bit too much alcohol that night
 

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I wasn't really interested in her because she was drunk and probably just looking for something to make her ex jealous or something.
So you're making excuses to avoid an easy lay... What's so wrong about being a rebound? If it's just for sex it doesn't really matter to you why she's so damn willing to do it.

Are you turning gay?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prodoge

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So you're making excuses to avoid an easy lay... What's so wrong about being a rebound? If it's just for sex it doesn't really matter to you why she's so damn willing to do it.

Are you turning gay?
It would have yes, but we where on the point of leaving so i didn't really have a choice since it was a 30 minute drive.

Under different circumstances yes easy lay sure
 

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What do you mean ? I described as close to reality as i could plus i consumed a bit too much alcohol that night
Yea true, you did seem to be objective but your perception appears to be colored.

It seems like you viewed this interaction as an enchanting night. You were cool, had a fun time with your mates, hot chicks looking at you, ended up getting a kiss without trying, got props from the guys, etc.

Just pointing out thst mindset.
I'm happy for your awesome night though, bud!
 

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It would have yes, but we where on the point of leaving so i didn't really have a choice since it was a 30 minute drive.

Under different circumstances yes easy lay sure
Looks like more excuses to my eyes. There's always a choice.
 
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