"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Last night in the club

Prodoge

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2016
Messages
200
Reaction score
24
Went to the club to celebrate a mate's birthday, having fun minding our own business.

At some point i was outside in the smoker area and there i somehow started talking to a girl. I wasn't even trying to flirt because of to much alcohol my conversation skills where limited.
She mentioned also that she just got dumped.

I left again and crossed her on the dancefloor where some guy was trying to dance with her. While passing we looked at each other and both of us smiled as she recognised me. I wasn't really interested in her because she was drunk and probably just looking for something to make her ex jealous or something.

Anyway all this to say nothing happened until we wanted to leave, we all got up and waited for the last to join. It happenend that she was walking towards us where i noticed her and gave her a smirk. She kept walking up to me and stopped to kiss me out of the blue. Then kept on walking.

Boy was i confused...
However it was some kind of self confidence boost, because she wouldn't do that to some random ugly fatty.

The funny part was one of my mates after it happened went: "You lucky bastard"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

beforeimgone

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 28, 2013
Messages
628
Reaction score
164
Went to the club to celebrate a mate's birthday, having fun minding our own business.

At some point i was outside in the smoker area and there i somehow started talking to a girl. I wasn't even trying to flirt because of to much alcohol my conversation skills where limited.
She mentioned also that she just got dumped.

I left again and crossed her on the dancefloor where some guy was trying to dance with her. While passing we looked at each other and both of us smiled as she recognised me. I wasn't really interested in her because she was drunk and probably just looking for something to make her ex jealous or something.

Anyway all this to say nothing happened until we wanted to leave, we all got up and waited for the last to join. It happenend that she was walking towards us where i noticed her and gave her a smirk. She kept walking up to me and stopped to kiss me out of the blue. Then kept on walking.

Boy was i confused...
However it was some kind of self confidence boost, because she wouldn't do that to some random ugly fatty.

The funny part was one of my mates after it happened went: "You lucky bastard"
You appear to be describing this as a romantic comedy

Not the best mindset to have
 

Prodoge

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2016
Messages
200
Reaction score
24
You appear to be describing this as a romantic comedy

Not the best mindset to have
What do you mean ? I described as close to reality as i could plus i consumed a bit too much alcohol that night
 

Serenity

Moderator
Joined
Aug 19, 2013
Messages
5,150
Reaction score
5,057
Age
35
Location
Eye of the storm
I wasn't really interested in her because she was drunk and probably just looking for something to make her ex jealous or something.
So you're making excuses to avoid an easy lay... What's so wrong about being a rebound? If it's just for sex it doesn't really matter to you why she's so damn willing to do it.

Are you turning gay?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Prodoge

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2016
Messages
200
Reaction score
24
So you're making excuses to avoid an easy lay... What's so wrong about being a rebound? If it's just for sex it doesn't really matter to you why she's so damn willing to do it.

Are you turning gay?
It would have yes, but we where on the point of leaving so i didn't really have a choice since it was a 30 minute drive.

Under different circumstances yes easy lay sure
 

beforeimgone

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 28, 2013
Messages
628
Reaction score
164
What do you mean ? I described as close to reality as i could plus i consumed a bit too much alcohol that night
Yea true, you did seem to be objective but your perception appears to be colored.

It seems like you viewed this interaction as an enchanting night. You were cool, had a fun time with your mates, hot chicks looking at you, ended up getting a kiss without trying, got props from the guys, etc.

Just pointing out thst mindset.
I'm happy for your awesome night though, bud!
 

Serenity

Moderator
Joined
Aug 19, 2013
Messages
5,150
Reaction score
5,057
Age
35
Location
Eye of the storm
It would have yes, but we where on the point of leaving so i didn't really have a choice since it was a 30 minute drive.

Under different circumstances yes easy lay sure
Looks like more excuses to my eyes. There's always a choice.
 
Top