"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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last night and today was a confidence booster

909pua

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i had older women (decent looking) complementing me that I'm nice and im such a sweetheart, and blah blah and telling it in front of everyone even in front of my wife and even punching and shrugging my shoulders (contact). and then i went to my next door neighbors party last night and my neighbor chick asked me to go dance with her ......

i learned that when you keep things cool and dont show any signs that you are needy and minding your own business, b8tches notice that and they have good detectors for it.


then today i went to ross and shopped and 3 cashier girls started talking to me. i was just minding my own business and i made this neck bracelet from a kids party that says "muay thai" cause i practice that. she kept saying that it looked nice and where i got it from and if that was my name i said NO, that's a martial art...

so in this world, your reality is what you make it, if you are needy, it will show and they will run away, if you keep cool and kind of step back and chill, they are more attracted.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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909pua said:
i was just minding my own business and i made this neck bracelet from a kids party that says "muay thai" cause i practice that. she kept saying that it looked nice and where i got it from and if that was my name i said NO, that's a martial art...

Haha. That is funny. But anyways a couple crucial points. That is why a lot of dudes don't succeed in this game. You have to Really kill any sense of desperation, females are competitive when it comes to men.
Which brings to mind a quote;

In order to get that one girl, you have to be able to get all the girls.
Have you ever noticed that usually when one female in a group is attracted to a male, they usually all are? Heh.

Congratulations on a good string of days, all your days have the potential to be like that if you keep that attitude. You being married is a turn on too. Females love what they can't have.. i,e the success of :

  • rhinoplasty
  • breast implants
  • buttox injections
  • face lifts
  • botox
 

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so in this world, your reality is what you make it, if you are needy, it will show and they will run away, if you keep cool and kind of step back and chill, they are more attracted.
It's a strange aspect of this life that when it comes to women, the men who desire them the most are the ones who can't get them. It's like you have to kill your desire or it will work against you.
 
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