Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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last night and today was a confidence booster

909pua

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i had older women (decent looking) complementing me that I'm nice and im such a sweetheart, and blah blah and telling it in front of everyone even in front of my wife and even punching and shrugging my shoulders (contact). and then i went to my next door neighbors party last night and my neighbor chick asked me to go dance with her ......

i learned that when you keep things cool and dont show any signs that you are needy and minding your own business, b8tches notice that and they have good detectors for it.


then today i went to ross and shopped and 3 cashier girls started talking to me. i was just minding my own business and i made this neck bracelet from a kids party that says "muay thai" cause i practice that. she kept saying that it looked nice and where i got it from and if that was my name i said NO, that's a martial art...

so in this world, your reality is what you make it, if you are needy, it will show and they will run away, if you keep cool and kind of step back and chill, they are more attracted.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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909pua said:
i was just minding my own business and i made this neck bracelet from a kids party that says "muay thai" cause i practice that. she kept saying that it looked nice and where i got it from and if that was my name i said NO, that's a martial art...

Haha. That is funny. But anyways a couple crucial points. That is why a lot of dudes don't succeed in this game. You have to Really kill any sense of desperation, females are competitive when it comes to men.
Which brings to mind a quote;

In order to get that one girl, you have to be able to get all the girls.
Have you ever noticed that usually when one female in a group is attracted to a male, they usually all are? Heh.

Congratulations on a good string of days, all your days have the potential to be like that if you keep that attitude. You being married is a turn on too. Females love what they can't have.. i,e the success of :

  • rhinoplasty
  • breast implants
  • buttox injections
  • face lifts
  • botox
 

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so in this world, your reality is what you make it, if you are needy, it will show and they will run away, if you keep cool and kind of step back and chill, they are more attracted.
It's a strange aspect of this life that when it comes to women, the men who desire them the most are the ones who can't get them. It's like you have to kill your desire or it will work against you.
 
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