Ken785
Master Don Juan
today she told me she broke up with her BF and wanted to hang out with me....i was like "ohhh...is that why you didnt call?" (in a jokingly way) and she ignored what i said and kinda played it off. what would you guys do?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
**** im pissed now....so me and her was flirting as usual today at work. then she comes up and asks me what im doing after work and i do my usual reply and say "nothing"...then there was a pause. then later when were outside shes talking to my other co-workers about how this other co-worker named dan is pissed because shes dating ANOTHER co-worker name adam. i gotta say... my afc took over and i was CRUSHED!!.
Kinda felt like i wanted to cry a little but laughed it off and walked kinda fast back inside. Later...so some reason her interest level with me was shot. Everytime i tried to talk with her she replys back in a non flirty way....
what do you guys think i should do??? im gonna next her definatly...i dont want no damn tease anyways....she seems like nothing but a attention *****. what would you guys do or say if you were in my shoes??
Kinda felt like i wanted to cry a little but laughed it off and walked kinda fast back inside. Later...so some reason her interest level with me was shot. Everytime i tried to talk with her she replys back in a non flirty way....
what do you guys think i should do??? im gonna next her definatly...i dont want no damn tease anyways....she seems like nothing but a attention *****. what would you guys do or say if you were in my shoes??
Ken785
Master Don Juan
help?? come on guys.... opinions? comments?? advice???
alphawolfx
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you're right... she seems like an attention w.hore
SO, use her for what she's worth
practice your C&F on her, and practice the flirting - WITHOUT expecting to get into anything (and who knows, this might get you somewhere, but THAT'S NOT THE POINT)
so when a girl isn't interested in you, keep her as a friend...
instead of LJBF, it's LJBFPB (let's just be flirting practice buddies)
USE her for what she's worth
SO, use her for what she's worth
practice your C&F on her, and practice the flirting - WITHOUT expecting to get into anything (and who knows, this might get you somewhere, but THAT'S NOT THE POINT)
so when a girl isn't interested in you, keep her as a friend...
instead of LJBF, it's LJBFPB (let's just be flirting practice buddies)
USE her for what she's worth
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
i asked her what her age was the other day and she was like "18" i was like "whoa! ur only 18??" she said "why? how old are you?" i said "im too old!" and i walked away...she later comes up to me and asks if i thought cuz she was 18 that she couldnt go out with me cuz of a 3 year difference...i said no. she says why dont i call her...i said why doesnt she call? i told her i lost her number and i think she was going to write it down but forgot...she then looked at our work schedules and said since we were both free on saturday that we should go out....i said yeah she should call me...
heres what i think...
i think shes either trying to play her cards with me and a couple of my other guy co-workers she is dating...by me saying i was too old i think kinda made it seem like i was a challenge because by saying im "too old" gives her the impression that i need someone more mature....
what you guys think? What if i go up to her and say...sure we can go out....WAIT A MINUTE....arent you dating ____?? and she says were just "hanging out" what would be a ****y/funny remark to that?? any advice is appreciated.
heres what i think...
i think shes either trying to play her cards with me and a couple of my other guy co-workers she is dating...by me saying i was too old i think kinda made it seem like i was a challenge because by saying im "too old" gives her the impression that i need someone more mature....
what you guys think? What if i go up to her and say...sure we can go out....WAIT A MINUTE....arent you dating ____?? and she says were just "hanging out" what would be a ****y/funny remark to that?? any advice is appreciated.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
replys??