Ken785
Master Don Juan
today she told me she broke up with her BF and wanted to hang out with me....i was like "ohhh...is that why you didnt call?" (in a jokingly way) and she ignored what i said and kinda played it off. what would you guys do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
**** im pissed now....so me and her was flirting as usual today at work. then she comes up and asks me what im doing after work and i do my usual reply and say "nothing"...then there was a pause. then later when were outside shes talking to my other co-workers about how this other co-worker named dan is pissed because shes dating ANOTHER co-worker name adam. i gotta say... my afc took over and i was CRUSHED!!.
Kinda felt like i wanted to cry a little but laughed it off and walked kinda fast back inside. Later...so some reason her interest level with me was shot. Everytime i tried to talk with her she replys back in a non flirty way....
what do you guys think i should do??? im gonna next her definatly...i dont want no damn tease anyways....she seems like nothing but a attention *****. what would you guys do or say if you were in my shoes??
Kinda felt like i wanted to cry a little but laughed it off and walked kinda fast back inside. Later...so some reason her interest level with me was shot. Everytime i tried to talk with her she replys back in a non flirty way....
what do you guys think i should do??? im gonna next her definatly...i dont want no damn tease anyways....she seems like nothing but a attention *****. what would you guys do or say if you were in my shoes??
Ken785
Master Don Juan
help?? come on guys.... opinions? comments?? advice???
alphawolfx
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you're right... she seems like an attention w.hore
SO, use her for what she's worth
practice your C&F on her, and practice the flirting - WITHOUT expecting to get into anything (and who knows, this might get you somewhere, but THAT'S NOT THE POINT)
so when a girl isn't interested in you, keep her as a friend...
instead of LJBF, it's LJBFPB (let's just be flirting practice buddies)
USE her for what she's worth
SO, use her for what she's worth
practice your C&F on her, and practice the flirting - WITHOUT expecting to get into anything (and who knows, this might get you somewhere, but THAT'S NOT THE POINT)
so when a girl isn't interested in you, keep her as a friend...
instead of LJBF, it's LJBFPB (let's just be flirting practice buddies)
USE her for what she's worth
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
i asked her what her age was the other day and she was like "18" i was like "whoa! ur only 18??" she said "why? how old are you?" i said "im too old!" and i walked away...she later comes up to me and asks if i thought cuz she was 18 that she couldnt go out with me cuz of a 3 year difference...i said no. she says why dont i call her...i said why doesnt she call? i told her i lost her number and i think she was going to write it down but forgot...she then looked at our work schedules and said since we were both free on saturday that we should go out....i said yeah she should call me...
heres what i think...
i think shes either trying to play her cards with me and a couple of my other guy co-workers she is dating...by me saying i was too old i think kinda made it seem like i was a challenge because by saying im "too old" gives her the impression that i need someone more mature....
what you guys think? What if i go up to her and say...sure we can go out....WAIT A MINUTE....arent you dating ____?? and she says were just "hanging out" what would be a ****y/funny remark to that?? any advice is appreciated.
heres what i think...
i think shes either trying to play her cards with me and a couple of my other guy co-workers she is dating...by me saying i was too old i think kinda made it seem like i was a challenge because by saying im "too old" gives her the impression that i need someone more mature....
what you guys think? What if i go up to her and say...sure we can go out....WAIT A MINUTE....arent you dating ____?? and she says were just "hanging out" what would be a ****y/funny remark to that?? any advice is appreciated.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
replys??