"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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last chance?

showtime11

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so basically i knew this girl for a couple years, was really a hi/bye type of relationship... well about a month ago i seen her at the mall and said hi to her exchanged numbers.

at first we started talkin on the phone textin all the time we went on a couple dates they couldnt be better we had chemistry laughing having fun couldnt think of a better date. then bout 4/5 days ago it just seemed like she changed not really texting me at all no calls she said she's been busy but that never stopped her before.

so basically i texted her this morning asked her if she wanted to get together sometime this week she said she could do something friday, i was kinda hoping she wouldnt say anything/say she was busy so i could move on.

so what im asking is i need something that could i could impress with get right with her ideas?:cool:

so for the life story lol and we are both 21
 

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If she's not returning your texts, then the only thing you can do to "impress" her is to forget about her.

Maybe if she understands that you have better things to do than sit around texting and calling her, then it'll renew her interest. And if it doesn't, then at least you started the process of forgetting her.

Next time around, do your conversing in person and use the phone as a tool to set up dates. Not as a relationship-builder.
 

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Reasons like these is exactly why you should have built more sexual tension on the dates so you could have at least ****ed her before she flaked!
 
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