"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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last chance?

showtime11

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so basically i knew this girl for a couple years, was really a hi/bye type of relationship... well about a month ago i seen her at the mall and said hi to her exchanged numbers.

at first we started talkin on the phone textin all the time we went on a couple dates they couldnt be better we had chemistry laughing having fun couldnt think of a better date. then bout 4/5 days ago it just seemed like she changed not really texting me at all no calls she said she's been busy but that never stopped her before.

so basically i texted her this morning asked her if she wanted to get together sometime this week she said she could do something friday, i was kinda hoping she wouldnt say anything/say she was busy so i could move on.

so what im asking is i need something that could i could impress with get right with her ideas?:cool:

so for the life story lol and we are both 21
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If she's not returning your texts, then the only thing you can do to "impress" her is to forget about her.

Maybe if she understands that you have better things to do than sit around texting and calling her, then it'll renew her interest. And if it doesn't, then at least you started the process of forgetting her.

Next time around, do your conversing in person and use the phone as a tool to set up dates. Not as a relationship-builder.
 

Borknagar

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Reasons like these is exactly why you should have built more sexual tension on the dates so you could have at least ****ed her before she flaked!
 
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