"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GuanYu

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Has anyone else ever made an all out last attempt at laying a chick when all seems lost? Even if the girl has LJBF, made up lame excuses for not being able to see you, etc do you say "lets fvck!" or something off the wall just for the hell of it?

For instance, there's this one woman I've been out with a few times but due to me being busy, she kind of went cold and I believe dropped the prospect of us ever hooking up. I asked her out today and she claimed that she probably wouldn't be available anytime soon. So I took this as low interest and moved on.

However...

I don't feel I'd have anything to lose if I were to make one last all out effort to get in the sheets. She's kinda young so figure I'd just text her with something like, "Since you're busy, we should have some fun in your room" or something like that. As you can tell, I really don't care so guess that should suffice.

What you all think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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prairiedog24

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I think if it's only sex you're going for, you should stick to the hand.

/shrug
 
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GuanYu said:
I don't feel I'd have anything to lose if I were to make one last all out effort to get in the sheets.
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Your reputation (as a desperate horn dog). That sh!t gets on the Girls Network real fast and once it's out there, you can't erase it.
 
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Jitterbug said:
Your reputation (as a desperate horn dog). That sh!t gets on the Girls Network real fast and once it's out there, you can't erase it.
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Agreed.

Rather than being a try-hard with a nothing to lose attitude why not just move on and continue growing? I think almost all DJs can agree with me on this when I say that more than half of the girls you have nexted have come back sooner or late once you start to sharpen and develop your skills as a confident man that is the Don Juan.. so let her decide, if she wants to have sex then let her come to you. And if she doesn't come back, then who cares? By then you will have already had countless of other experiences from even more beautiful woman. It's cheesy, but entirely true.. there is plenty of fish in the sea my brother.
 
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