"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GuanYu

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Has anyone else ever made an all out last attempt at laying a chick when all seems lost? Even if the girl has LJBF, made up lame excuses for not being able to see you, etc do you say "lets fvck!" or something off the wall just for the hell of it?

For instance, there's this one woman I've been out with a few times but due to me being busy, she kind of went cold and I believe dropped the prospect of us ever hooking up. I asked her out today and she claimed that she probably wouldn't be available anytime soon. So I took this as low interest and moved on.

However...

I don't feel I'd have anything to lose if I were to make one last all out effort to get in the sheets. She's kinda young so figure I'd just text her with something like, "Since you're busy, we should have some fun in your room" or something like that. As you can tell, I really don't care so guess that should suffice.

What you all think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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prairiedog24

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I think if it's only sex you're going for, you should stick to the hand.

/shrug
 
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GuanYu said:
I don't feel I'd have anything to lose if I were to make one last all out effort to get in the sheets.
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Your reputation (as a desperate horn dog). That sh!t gets on the Girls Network real fast and once it's out there, you can't erase it.
 
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Jitterbug said:
Your reputation (as a desperate horn dog). That sh!t gets on the Girls Network real fast and once it's out there, you can't erase it.
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Agreed.

Rather than being a try-hard with a nothing to lose attitude why not just move on and continue growing? I think almost all DJs can agree with me on this when I say that more than half of the girls you have nexted have come back sooner or late once you start to sharpen and develop your skills as a confident man that is the Don Juan.. so let her decide, if she wants to have sex then let her come to you. And if she doesn't come back, then who cares? By then you will have already had countless of other experiences from even more beautiful woman. It's cheesy, but entirely true.. there is plenty of fish in the sea my brother.
 
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