"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GuanYu

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Has anyone else ever made an all out last attempt at laying a chick when all seems lost? Even if the girl has LJBF, made up lame excuses for not being able to see you, etc do you say "lets fvck!" or something off the wall just for the hell of it?

For instance, there's this one woman I've been out with a few times but due to me being busy, she kind of went cold and I believe dropped the prospect of us ever hooking up. I asked her out today and she claimed that she probably wouldn't be available anytime soon. So I took this as low interest and moved on.

However...

I don't feel I'd have anything to lose if I were to make one last all out effort to get in the sheets. She's kinda young so figure I'd just text her with something like, "Since you're busy, we should have some fun in your room" or something like that. As you can tell, I really don't care so guess that should suffice.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think if it's only sex you're going for, you should stick to the hand.

/shrug
 
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GuanYu said:
I don't feel I'd have anything to lose if I were to make one last all out effort to get in the sheets.
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Your reputation (as a desperate horn dog). That sh!t gets on the Girls Network real fast and once it's out there, you can't erase it.
 
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Jitterbug said:
Your reputation (as a desperate horn dog). That sh!t gets on the Girls Network real fast and once it's out there, you can't erase it.
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Agreed.

Rather than being a try-hard with a nothing to lose attitude why not just move on and continue growing? I think almost all DJs can agree with me on this when I say that more than half of the girls you have nexted have come back sooner or late once you start to sharpen and develop your skills as a confident man that is the Don Juan.. so let her decide, if she wants to have sex then let her come to you. And if she doesn't come back, then who cares? By then you will have already had countless of other experiences from even more beautiful woman. It's cheesy, but entirely true.. there is plenty of fish in the sea my brother.
 
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