"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lass laments that lads don't like to pay for dates anymore
- Thread starter MatureDJ
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
PeasantPlayer
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wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Cry some more!
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Slash Dolo
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WitnessGR
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When I really began to produce, (gym memberships, exxc. activities and going out more) I learned the true value of money, not just of having it, but what I can do with it. This is when I withdrew myself from the game.
Treat your money how you treat your money. You don't just give it away, exchanging it for no food or no service. If you are spending your own money, make sure you get some benefit out of it.
TheMonkeyKing
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True thing.
I think there is a fairly new issue insomuch as there are a more dangerous breed of white knights who are learning a bit of game and applying a bit of theory that suits them, stuff that is convenient (like, not paying for dates), and just making themselves look even more pathetic than they already are by not having the persona to back up the power play.
TheCuckSlayer
Banned
Beautiful, sane women who don't expect to be handed things on a silver platter are out there. After all, the whole reason we're here is so that we can find them and fwck them
