"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lass at skool

lil hooligan

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there is this lass at skool she is nice and i really like her, yeh, were mate's should i just like flirty with her or what, could do with some advice, tap back

p.s. im from england, skool is different from america or w/e
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lil hooligan

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oh and if it is easier to talk to me about this on msn, it is:
[email protected] - add if you want
 

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...I never thought I'd see the day someone pulls off an English accent on the web...anyway...don't you think the people need something like...MORE INFO?

Almost everyone here had a lass at school, hell, I still do...(newb, btw, so don't blame me for not giving any advice) Every situation is different.

For instance...do you know her...does she know you, how well, stuff like that mostly.
 

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more info.

1)what the **** you on about pulls off an english accent, i am ****ing english you ****
2) anway, she is really fit/good looking we are friends like i could hang with her at school we have been friends since year 7 (now in year 11 and realised DGAF, dont give a **** lets just go for it)
3) i used to hang with her after school drinking in the park with rest of her and my friend but i dont anymore
4) she is the sort of girl that you have known for 2 minuites and can trust
and i have known her for 4 years so the trust is strong
 

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Hurm, I wasn't insulting you or anything, yanno. I'm just saying, I knew you were English before I even read your post.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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^Bud that crossed the line and you know it.

But hes right,we do need more info from your first post but now that you clarified it....

I think you might be friendzoned.Meaning you have a slim ass chance of hookin up with her.

1.Yes 4 years is a long time and I know people who have hooked up with friends with those sorts of relationships but man if you havent done anythin with her the whole time,what makes you think you have a chance now?Suddenly starting to show interest to her now?Its late man

2.You used to drink with her.Thats a golden opportunity with High School girls man.Reestablish this drinking and make your move

3.Trust that you guys have is great.Will being in a relationship make it greater or worse?Think about it.

Sorry for long ranting,Im just pissed at another issue but thats off topic.You asked for advice,so my advice is,try it out.Initiate more touching with her,make some sexual jokes here and there.Hell alchohol will loosen both of you greatly so why not use that to your advantage in your case?Its not best solution but fvcking her will be alot easier with it
 
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