"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UltimateDJuan

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Is it true that at some point of the Lasik process they actually cut your cornea and flop it over?

This is one of my main inhibitions towards getting lasik done. I really don't like the idea of having a slice of my cornea cut and flopped over with some tweezers!

Also, would the cornea ever truly heal, or will it always be a flap that can get disloged if you rub your eyes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Celadus

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Yeah, with lasik they cut your cornea and make a flap with it. If you have a good doctor and you are a good candidate it should heal perfectly fine but some people od have problems.

I've been researching it for a few years and I suggest going to several really, really good doctors before you make a decision. I'm driving to beverly hills for a consultation. Look into PRK or Lasek. They don't have a flap, are more suitable for certain types of people (big pupil, thin cornea) and they usually have less after surgery side effects. It takes a week or two to recover, sometimes you are still improving a couple months after.

Do a lot of research. A lot of people think its great but a few people had a lot of trouble. Keep in mind the people with the bad problems are going to be more vocal on the net than people who have the surgery and never think about it again.
 

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UltimateDJuan said:
Also, would the cornea ever truly heal, or will it always be a flap that can get disloged if you rub your eyes?
Supposedly, the only part that really heals is the rim around the cut, but the flap can still be flopped open like even like 7 years later by eye docs to make repairs.

So, yes there are some risks with this procedure:

Lasik Disaster
Surgical Eyes

However, I think most are pretty satisfied with it.
 

Celadus

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Recovery period is longer and rougher. You are pretty much knocked out in bed for a few days.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Throttle

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I've had friends & family end up at the Johns Hopkins eye clinic from time to time, where they apparently do nothing but bad-mouth laser surgery for eyes and trade horror stories (you really don't want to know). Of course, being one of the best eye clinics around, they probably see the worst cases (selection bias)...
 
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